Whew! The past few days have been a whirlwind of activities. The other day, Genece took me Christmas shopping and that was VERY interesting! Surprisingly, everywhere we went we met nice retail clerks and I had a chance to spread more cheer (then later, we drank a little cheer). Then, she took me to a WalMart Superstore to meet up with her stepmother. I hadn’t ever seen anything like this! It was bigger than a town! And, all the toys were so tempting to play with
Next, we spent the rest of the afternoon at the nursing home where Genece’s mother is living. I got to sit in Mary Lou’s lap and talk for awhile so Genece could hang clean clothes in her mom’s closet. Then, we went across the hall and I met Theo who is Mary Lou’s good friend. All the nurses were good to me and let me even wear a nurses hat (see photos below)! And, I hung out with the nurse’s assistant that helps patients when they’re feeling cranky (her name was Susan and we became instant friends! — she told me what it was like to be in service every day to all the people living at the home and how amazing the experience) or not feeling well. Susan loved hearing all about my adventures and we decided to spend more time together while I’m still here.
For the most part, a lot of the patients seemed fairly adjusted to their living environment. I got a little sad when I met some folks with serious memory loss. However, Genece helped me to understand how to see everyone as whole so I could have a different experience. Next week, one of the nurses said she’ll take time to teach me more about alzheimer’s and dementia. I think it will be good for me to know these things and Genece said we can spend as much time as needed for me to learn. Genece really loves connecting with all the patients and takes time with many of them everytime she visits her mom. Mary Lou told me that she’s happy her daughter makes everyone feel good because she likes doing it too. Though she wouldn’t probably say it about herself, according to the nurses, Mary Lou is a shining star.
The photo above is Mary Lou, Genece’s mother and a real sweetheart! Literally! She was born on Valentine’s Day!
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12/21: Yesterday, Genece spent the day cleaning and reorganizing her house to create an area for exercise equipment. I helped a little until I fell on my bum trying to move a piece of furniture. I should have listened to Genece and waited until she was done with something else. That will teach me! With a sore bum, I nestled up in the Queen’s throne to nap. Serena curled up on the chair as well. I thought to make me feel better. Ha! She was trying to nudge me off the chair! She wanted it all to herself. Thank goodness Genece saw it happening and told Serena to behave. She huffed and meowed a little then curled in a ball on the other side of the chair. All was fine — I went fast asleep and when I woke up from the nap, everything was done. Genece was happy to see me awake and we spent the rest of the evening in her chair watching Christmas movies together and drinking hot chocolate (Genece makes the BEST! — She makes it with dark cacao, raspberry sugar free syrup, and low fat whipping cream. YUMMY!). On the second movie, Genece fell asleep and I watched “White Christmas” all the way through before waking her. I’m glad she was asleep — she didn’t have to see me cry when the old man was being honored near the end. It was heart wrenching! My favorite part was when the two sisters sang, “Sisters, Sisters, never saw such devoted sisters — Dru, it made me think of you! Especially, the line “Lord help the sister who comes between me and my man!” Get the hint? Just in case you were thinking of ever attempting to make any moves on my boyfriends.
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12/22: Speaking of boyfriends, I’m in love! Today, I met Genece’s dad and he took us out to lunch. Want to hear something funny? At lunch was Genece, her father, her stepmother AND her mother (her mother and stepmother have become close friends over the years). When the waitress asked her dad how he got to be so lucky being with four beautiful women, he smiled “It must be in the stars!” (Her dad is very charming. Though he’s on a breathing machine, it was me who felt her breath taken away! He stole my heart when he sang me a song (he used to be a country singer). When our food arrived, another waitress said with humor when I was sitting by him, “It must be love — the old man and the witch!” Everyone busted up laughing — not just at our table, but all the tables near us! Then, she poured me a cup of coffee. I tasted it and then spit it out — YUCK! I don’t think I’m really a coffee girl. I had the waitress bring me what Genece was drinking — orange juice. I love orange juice!
Now, it’s evening. “Wizard of Oz” is coming on so I’m signing off because I don’t want to miss watching it. Genece told me it had more influence over her as a little girl than any other movie. She has an interesting philosophy about what the movie meant to her psyche. Maybe she’ll share it with you one day soon.
“We’re off to see the Wizard, The Wonderful Wizard of Oz. You’ll find he is a whiz of a Wiz! If ever a Wiz! there was. If ever oh ever a Wiz! there was The Wizard of Oz is one because, because, because, because, because, because. Because of the wonderful things he does. We’re off to see the Wizard. The Wonderful Wizard of Oz!”
Genece loves to listen to me sing — we sing a lot together.
Here’s all the photos taken the past couple of days (tomorrow, we’re painting and writing poetry — I can’t wait!)

Me sitting with the nativity scene at the nursing home. It was very special to sit there.

Me singing with the “Singing Cats” in Mary Lou’s room — we sang, “Baby it’s cold outside!”

Theo — Mary Lou’s friend. Theo used to be a competitive skater for years and traveled the US competing with her husband as her skating partner. She has a lot of trophies in her room and photos of her husband (he passed away six years ago) and kids.

Me and Susan with the nurses. Susan is a Nurse’s Assistant helping patients who need to be uplifted. We had fun hanging out! Check out my nurses hat! (We had a heck of time fitting over my black hat — it’s why it looks so tall!)

Genece’s Dad — Barney! He’s 6′4″ and Genece is ONLY 5′1″ — how can that be? I’m in love
He sang “Danny Boy!” to me and I melted.

Genece said with my spirit, I probably don’t need coffee. I think she’s right! With such a yucky taste, it’s not likely I’ll try it again.